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10 Best Sexual Positions For Women To Get Control Over Him
November 28, 2018 | Sex | By Amanda Johnson
Men like to romance their woman but they also like it when the woman takes charge in the bedroom once in a while. Here are 10 best sexual positions for women to get control over him.
1. Classic Cowgirl
While your partner lies down you have to face him and sit on him with your legs on both sides. Put your hands on his chest in order to maintain your balance. Then you are in charge. How much penetration you want and how deep inside you want him is totally up to you. Given your age and your partner’s age, however, don’t make it too fast else both of you may hurt yourselves. The same position but you facing away from your man will make it a reverse cowgirl position. In this you can get greater control and increased sensation if you bend a little forward while you move. Ask your man to stimulate you further by rubbing your clitoris when you move.
2. He Is My Chair
If your partner is suffering from back pain then make him sit on a chair. The backrest will avoid any discomfort for him. Then sit on him such that you are facing him. Tell him to hold you tightly for balance. Once his arms are wrapped around you, you can start your grinding game. Alternatively, you can wrap your arms around him and by pressing your legs firmly against the floor you can ride up and down. It will get you totally in control of the act. If he can do without the chair, then you can try the same position at the edge of the bed as well.
3. Lick Me Till I Moan
Make your man lie down and sit on his face. Hold to the headboard or the wall in front of you so that you don’t lose your balance. Then move your hips and adjust the pace, the depth, and the way you want his tongue to lick you at your most erogenous zone.
4. The Controlled Dog
So men like the doggie position. It gives them a sense of power. But you can change the role. Once your man starts with this move, you have to take your hands behind and hold him and then start moving yourself. So now you are the boss who controls the movement. You could also ask him to stop moving and instead you move forward and backward. When you do this, turn around once in a while and look at him to give him a sense of awe and to tell him that now you are in charge. At your age if you find that being on your knees while balancing with your arms is hurting then lower yourself down a little and rest on the pillow on your cheeks so that you can still watch him.
5. He Is The Sofa
Make your man sit at the edge of the bed. Face away from him and sit on him. Keep your hands on either side of the bed to maintain your balance. Now that you hold the reigns you can move your butt against his manhood and enjoy the act. If you want increased sensation then you can arch your back a little towards him during the penetration.
6. We Are The Blooming Lotus
This is best done on a comfortable bed. The man sits with his legs crossed. Then you have to sit on his legs such that your thighs are against his chest and your legs are over his shoulders. Tell your partner to hold your thighs to maintain balance while you not only control how deeply you kiss him on his lips but also the way you move yourself against him.
7. I Am On Top Of You Now
How much more of missionary can you take? It is time for some change of role now. Ask your partner to lie down on his back with his feet straight and pressed close together. You lie on top of him – not totally, but almost. When you start moving, keep your head and back a little up and balance yourself with your hands on both sides. You can command your partner to stimulate you further by rubbing your clitoris with his free hand.
8. Carry Me Please
Are you petite and is your man well built enough to carry you? You can definitely try this move then. Ask your partner to carry you while you face him. Wrap your arms and legs around him and then drive him inside you. Keep your face at level with your partner’s so that you can kiss deeply when as the sex gets hotter.
9. I Will Get You Breathless
Make your partner lie down with his legs spread apart. Place yourself between his legs so that when he is inside you, you are pinning him down with your hands. Keep your face a little raised so that he has to raise his head a little if he wants to meet your lips. With this move you will definitely be the boss for the night.
10. We Are Two Statues
This is a fairly simple position. Make your man stand straight. He can be against the wall for extra support. You need to be in front of him, facing away from him nd then move till he is completely inside you. If there is a height mismatch you might have to get on your toes or keep your heel shoes on. Place your head on your man’s shoulder while he caresses your breasts or your butt. You will see how hungry the touch gets as the penetration increases.
Men don’t always like submissiveness in their women. They like those moments too when their partner shows that she is independent and bold too. So, shed those inhibitions and use these 10 positions to get hold of the reigns the next time you are having sex.
