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Top 25 Sexual Fantasies of 50+ Males
December 26, 2018 | Sex | By Amanda Johnson
Over 50 and still fantasizing? It’s normal and prevalent in most men. Here are the top 25 sexual fantasies that men of this age group have.
1. Let The Woman Take Charge
At this age you might be dreaming of letting your partner take charge. This happens because most of the time – especially at work – you might be the one taking decisions. Hence women taking charge is certainly one of the most cherished sexual fantasies you have from long when it comes to sex.
2. Use The Mouth
You are at an age where even in reality you might not have the prowess to carry out all kinds of movements in bed. Hence, many a times the sex becomes boring or even plummets to a zero. Often thus men of this age tend to fantasise about situations where they are having fun and yet not having to over exert themselves. Thus oral sex fits well in your another sexual fantasy list.
3. Threesome and More
A partner of decades is highly unlikely to allow another woman into bed. More so at this age when they can’t stop dreaming that they still have the ability to pleasure more than one at the same time. They hence often desire to have the second or even the third woman around too and hence a threesome or a foursome is what their dirty secret is.
4. Watch Sex Together
Men do watch sex on screen. However, what they really want is to sit with their partner and watch it together. At this age, a kind of comfort and habit seeps into the sex. Hence they wish that they could do something that they have never done so as to bring in spice into it. In this context, they also have desires of videoing the act so that he can watch it with his partner later on.
5. Watch The Woman Masturbate
50+ males with a partner who has been them for many years now will probably be having routine sex. So much so, that often the desires of each other go unspoken. But the man does fantasise and one such fantasy is to watch his partner masturbate in front of him – often dreaming that she has become a handful of years younger as well.
6. Get Caught In Public
A fifty-year-old man is expected to be classy and dignified. Hence, what he could have done in his youth he can no longer do now. For example, make out in public and not be bothered about getting caught. This certainly now thus forms a part of his fantasy.
7. Order The Woman
It is one thing being the boss at work and an altogether a different thing to command while in bed. Sex with the partner by now becomes so vanilla and soft that he desires to have one session where he is in total command – right from ordering her what to do to forcing her to do it.
8. Fetish
Men often harbour secret fetishes that maybe the partner would never allow him to do in real life. Hence he makes do by just imagining about it. Think blindfolding, handcuffing etc. In his dreams these often also culminate into role-plays.
9. Be With The Younger Woman
In real life he would never let go of his partner. But that doesn’t mean he doesn’t fantasies about being with a younger woman. It gives him a high thinking that he would teach her and deal with her naiveté. There are men who dream about having sex with a virgin as well. It makes them feel younger and also gives them a sense of power.
10. Be With One Who He Can Never Get
There is always that woman who he can’t get. Maybe she’s been his fantasy lady for years – maybe some celebrity, maybe the young librarian at the library that he visits, or maybe the nurse who looks after him. These women come back to his thoughts during moments of vulnerability and he feels like having some passionate sex with them.
11. Do Something Wrong
Men of this age are prim and proper family men. They are thus expected to behave themselves and be dignified. So, what they can’t do in their normal lives, they do it in the dreams. Many men over fifty fantasise of having non-permissible sex. For example, this could be in public where the cops might catch them.
12. In Modes Of Transport
Yes, this makes it to their list too. They do fantasise about making out with their partner in the washroom of an aeroplane or in the limo in the middle of an empty road.
13. Amidst Nature
Life can be quite boring for men of this age group. Hence they fantasise about places that they want to visit and often this imagination ends at fantasy sex in these lands. These could be the beach, the mountain, or even while on a camping trip.
14. In Luxury Hotels
While traveling for business they check into luxurious business hotels. Often during these travels they are alone. Thus their want of being with their partners fructify into imagining about passionate sex amidst the fresh sheets, cosy covers, in front of a fireplace, or even in the bathtub.
15. Phone Sex
Once you are with your woman for years you can start predicting exactly what the next moves will be in bed. It is hence no wonder that older men start to think of situations when they would be sexting someone new, young, and exciting. Thinking of sending dirty messages and naughty pictures does give them a turn on.
16. Someone Would Fight For Them
When a man who is in his fifties stands in front of the mirror he sees someone who has started to age. Hence when he shuts his eyes he imagines a situation where a beautiful woman would pursue him because he is hot and handsome. Maybe even fight other women or literally throw herself at him just to get his attention.
17. Being Forced By The Woman
A fifty-year-old man is sober to the world but something else in the mind. He often fantasizes of a situation where the woman is forcing him to give her oral sex. The force and pull that he imagines gives him a turn on.
18. Do A Lot Of Talking
When the sex becomes a routine all the talk goes out of the bedroom and only the act remains which offers no satisfaction. Often men of his age go through this. Thus, they dream of having sex with a woman who would talk to them during the love making session. He imagines her telling him of what she feels, what she wants, and even gets down to naughty talk as well.
19. Stay On For A Long Time
At fifty men often suffer from premature ejaculation. This is a source of embarrassment for him. Hence in his fantasy he imagines a situation where he is able to perform for a very long time.
20. Dream Of Bisexuality
Even completely straight men dream of having sex with both men and women together – almost like an orgy party. Visually seeing others having sex while the self also indulges in touching a variety of people gives the man a huge turn on.
21. Anal Sex
Not all women like the idea of anal sex and at this age, the man might not be allowed by his partner to have anal sex. Hence this makes it to his fantasy list where he imagines not only fingering his woman from the back but a full on penetration.
22. Watch Two Women Have Sex
Lesbianism does give men a turn on and so this makes it to their list. Women in the 69 position or even with strap-ons is what they like to think of.
23. Ejaculate On The Partner
Not all women like to be ejaculated upon as it makes things a little messy. But men fantasies of doing that – right from on the stomach to the face. They like to think that they are spurting on their woman then follow it up with a massage.
24. Make A Video Together
Men love watching porn even at this age. Hence, they often secretly wish that they are able to film their own act with their partner and watch it together at a later date. It does however, more often than not, just remain a fantasy.
25. Only Romance
Tradition never dies. Men of this age dream up the entire romantic date scene – right from picking up his lady love, to a candle light dinner, to the mushy love making to end the night. This is probably because it has been ages since he did something like this. Maybe it is a reminder of his wedding night or the first date from years ago.
Now that you know which are the top 25 fantasies that men over fifty have, which ones make it to your fantasy list? Or, do you have a fantasy that is totally new?
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