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Sex Toys for Seniors
June 6, 2019 | Sex | By Jason Reid
There are many sex toys for seniors in the market today that can help a man and woman achieve the desired pleasure and orgasm even after 50 years of age. Here are some of the more popular ones in the market today.
Toys For Women
Lubricants
With age comes vaginal dryness for women which makes sex painful. The use of lubricants helps to keep the vaginal area moist, thus making sex more pleasurable. Water based lubricants are safer but the silicon based ones are more long lasting. The oil based ones are suited especially in cases of anal sex. Do remember when using a latex condom avoid using oil based and when using silicon toys, avoid the silicon based ones when using your toys in tandem.
Nipple Clasps
Pinching of nipples is a huge arousal for women. Hence the use of nipple clasps of clips enhances sensation and makes sex more fun. There are adjustable ones available with which the sensation can be kept light or hard depending on the mood you are in and achieving pleasurable sex.
Vibrators
There are many varieties available in the market now – from those that work on battery to manual ones. Some provide adjustments to the speed while others opt for size variations to suite your liking. You need to choose the one that turns you on most and use it to further enhance pleasure and spice up your sex life.
- One of the most popular vibrator is the Rabbit. It stimulates the clitoris and looks like a pair of bunny ears.
- Another is the 4-inch long pocket rocket from Doc Johnson. This curves up at one end and reaches G-spot perfectly.
- The Magic Wand Recha rgeable vibrator can be used both as a cordless and also in the a plugged-in mode.
- Another type are the bullet style vibrators. These are the size of a pebble and act as great clitoral stimulators. Amongst the popular bestseller is a tongue spec one by Lonove.
- If you want a clitoral stimulation and a body massage then those by Doxy are great.
- If you want a dildo that doesn’t vibrate then you could choose those that are made of glass or metal. These can be heated in warm water or cooled in a fridge and then used.
Kegel Balls
Kegel balls help to build up muscle strength. They also maintain the elasticity of the vaginal wall. So, indirectly, it will help you to have better sex.
Dilators
Women in their 50s often experience tightness of the vagina. This makes sex painful. Dilators are thin and well suited for women who have attained menopause. It helps to stretch the vagina so that when the sex happens the pain is not there.
Toys For Men
Cock Ring
A senior man often suffers from erectile dysfunction at this age. With a cock ring not only will he be able to maintain an erection for a longer period but it will also increase the sensations that he feels. One such has a button at the end which, when turned on, makes the ring act like a vibrator. It stimulates the clitoris and also the penis as this one from Je Joue Mio. This is rechargeable and also quite easy to use and clean. These rings restrict blood flow to the penis and hence help to maintain the erection for a longer time. But if you suffer from a circulatory problem then you should be careful and ideally should not wear it for more than half an hour.
Everlaster
This is a hollow dildo with a strap on from Sportsheets. A man can wear this even on a semi erect penis. With this he can continue having sex even after orgasm. It is especially helpful if the man suffers from erectile dysfunction or to continue sex after orgasm.
Male Vibrators
The Pulse III Solo by Hot Octopuss has 5 modes of vibration and can be used even when the penis is flaccid. Hence it is useful for men with erectile dysfunction. Another popular choice is the Rocks Off Hand Solo has an open sleeve design. In the inner lining it has secret contours. It is also waterproof which is why you can use it in the shower as well.
Toys For Couples
Doggie Styled Strap
Such a strap can be used in positions other than the doggie-style and that too by either of the partners. It helps the one partner in motion to controls more with their arms than with the hips. At this age it protects the lower back.
Cuffs
Cuffs add pleasure to the sex if you want to experiment with bondage and it can be used on either of the partners. It can also help to keep the arms and legs stable when one needs to hold it in a particular position. At this age this is beneficial because it helps in stability.
Suction Handle
Either partner can use this and it is useful especially if you are attempting sex in the standing position. You can attach the handle to a flat smooth surface like those in the shower.
Anal Beads
Anal beads help with stimulation for both partners. Men usually use it to get an erection by doing prostate stimulation.
There are a lot of toys that you can choose from. Some of the popular sites from where you can buy are goodvibes.com, loverspackage.com or evesgarden.com. There are specialty stores as well like Good Vibrations in San Francisco, the Denver based Fascinations or Babeland located in New York. So, go shopping and make your sex session hotter and fun!
